Friday, April 30, 2010

I am moving to America in 2 months. Will you give me some advice?




We are moving to USA in 2 months. After we buy the ticket, we are left with $2000. We are going to stay with a family member until my husband finds a job. My university will start in January. I have full scholarship for my PhD from the university of Arkansas, so we will move to Fayetteville. My husband and my baby daughter of 15 months, are both American Citizens, so I got my Immigrant visa. Everything in London is so expensive, and with only him working and getting 拢1200 pcm, we couldn't save money at all after the birth of my child. I am freaking out and I think I am having anxiety attack. I don't know the American culture, English is not my first language, although I passed the GRE and TOEFL, we don't have enough money, I am just so worried.





Can you say something to calm me down?I am moving to America in 2 months. Will you give me some advice?
You are taking some chances there, but that is life. Live frugally, that is all I can recommend.I am moving to America in 2 months. Will you give me some advice?
DON'T!!!


Our economy stinks, we have no universal health care, our educational system leaves a lot to be desired, the war for oil in Iraq will bankrupt the Nation and our image around the world has been damaged.


Good Luck, anyway.
When you get here you could find a part time job to help your husband it's also gonna help you to find new friends, start being social and feel a little better and start getting used to it
Sure. Arkansas is a hell of a lot cheaper than London.





$2000 will get you about a month of expenses. Staying with family will help stretch that.





Hope your husband can get a job fast.
Calm down. Half of America doesn't speak English anyway. :P You'll be fine. Your husband would show you the ropes I'm sure so don't worry about it.
Fayetteville, Arkansas is fairly cheap compared to much of the US. However, a measly $2000 is not even enough to pay first, last and security deposit on a small apartment. Then you need utility deposits, furniture %26amp; furnishings, groceries, etc. Even $5000 will be a tight squeeze just to get a roof over your head and a phone installed to start job-hunting.





Staying with a family member when there are 3 of you is still going to be very difficult financially and every other way. $2000 is not going to get a car and gas to start job-hunting -- and those are as critical as a phone. And you are still going to need at least $5000 to get into a place of your own and get set up with the barest minimum of garage-sale furnishings.





You definitely need to put together a lot more money for your move. What is your status and have you considered how long it is going to take for your to get work authorization so you can get a job, too? A scholarship is helpful, but what about all of your fees, books, dissertation research expenses, transportation to %26amp; from classes, child care while you are class, etc? You are going to have to work, if you can get authorization and have some sort of skills to get work.





And what is your husband's education and experience? Jobs are scarce in the US these days. Over 450,000 per week are losing their jobs.





You are in terrible trouble any way you look at it. You do not have time to waste on panic attacks, freak-outs, etc. When the going gets tough, the tough get going.
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    I'm travelling to Brazil, Peru, Argentina and Chile for 4 months. I have quite a few places I want to go to but has anyone been to any places you'd recommend not to be missed?Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?
    The Plains of Nazca. The drawings are pretty cool from the air. Bariloche in Argentina.. If you go in July, you can ski.. since it is winter there. Iguazu falls is worth seeing, also. I would also recommend a side trip to the easter islands off the chilean coast, The statues are pretty cool. I like Macchu Picchu but its really, really touristy.. basically a small city at the base. Lake titicaca is a lake.. so what? Pour some water on you airplane tray and make a paper boat. Then youll have a 5 mile high lake. Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?
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    I had visit Argentina and Chile and Buenos Aires is a beautiful city to visit, also Santiago City but in Argentina you have Patagonia (amazing cold place) and in Chile you have Ilha da P谩scoa. I had attached some links with photos for you.
    You cannot miss Buenos Aires, is by far the most cosmopolitan city in latinamerica. Go south and you will find Bariloche it's also worht the trip, in winter is as beautiful as switzerlad.
    Iguazu Falls - borders with Brazil, Paraguay and Argentina (or maybe Uruguay)





    Bigger than Victoria Falls - massive natural wonder!
    Lake Titicaca on the Peru, Bolivia Border is a must. Worlds Highest navigable lake.
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    If Hispanics illegals claim that America is run by the ';gringo'; then why don't they take the ';gringo's'; advice

    and learn from American government. Thier countries are economic failures. Why don't they becaome more humble and willing to learn from a better system. Is it against thier deepest emotions to listen to a ';gringo.'; Why must they fight this country?If Hispanics illegals claim that America is run by the ';gringo'; then why don't they take the ';gringo's'; advice
    Ah, but those who GOVERN in those countries aren't economically failed! They are the ';ricos'; who gain from the way they run the country. Those illegals have virtually no control, as they have virtually no economic clout. The ';ricos'; have no incentive to pay any heed to the general population.





    US workers have had clout through unionization, which has dramatically changed the balance towards more equity, compared to the ';robber baron'; era of the late 1800s and early 1900s. That fact alone dramatically changed the entire economic face of our country.





    All that said, I'm NOT a union supporter, as I think many of them exploit their membership. Nor am I a sycophantic promoter of amnesty for illegals. They should be sent back as they are discovered, though I think ';herding'; them up in sweeps is unnecessary. When an illegal is discovered by law enforcement, they should be detained, heard, and quickly deported if they have no valid business in this country.





    My initial comments are but a reasonable consideration that must be made.If Hispanics illegals claim that America is run by the ';gringo'; then why don't they take the ';gringo's'; advice
    I say don't keep pointing out their errors and let them keep doing as they are. ;)
    illegals are too dirty and stupid to learn anything.
    Where have you been? America IS run by the gringo. Each country does things its own way.
    Gringo is a racial slur. They can call us Gringo but whatever we call them it's racist.

    My husband's Ex is moving to South America and wants to take their son. Any advice would help...?

    My husband's Ex is leaving in Nov. to South America to live with their son and we have Joint Custody of the boy who is 9. I know we have to go to court but I was wanting some advice if anyone else has gone through this, what does the courts usually do in these cases... We are really scared about all of this for we don't want to away from him, we are going to try to fight for Full custody and she can have him in summer... My question is what does the court normally do with these cases, and any advice on what we can do or say to help us... Thank YouMy husband's Ex is moving to South America and wants to take their son. Any advice would help...?
    He may just get custody, depending on the judge, the same happened with my husband's ex. She was moving to Germany wanted to take the girls, he took her to court and the judge told her she could either give up custody or stay in the Country. She choose to stay and they continue having joint custody.My husband's Ex is moving to South America and wants to take their son. Any advice would help...?
    So Sharon B., it's perfectly OK to split a father and his son up?





    I would talk to a lawyer about this, and hope that the court sides with you, and maybe figure out how to argue that it is in the child's best interest to stay in the USA.
    I'm not trying to be rude here but...you are not this child's mother. Seeing as courts usually side with the mother in cases of custody (unless of course she's proven very unfit), you probably don't have much of a chance at gaining sole custody.





    I'm sorry.
    That is NOT going to be easy for the mom. Even moving out of State is a big deal when batling custody. I don't think the judge will allow that, particularly because the child is a U.S. Citizen.
    i would advise your husband .as hard as it will be, to avoid legal fess.
    Why would you want to split a mother and her son up. The child has absolutely nothing to do with you.
    The child's best interst is to be with the mom.

    I am a college student living in america and my family in india keep asking when i'm coming,.advice needed

    when i met my cousin from india in new york, he asked me about my vacation time and asked me why i dont come to india..end of july, i got my licence and now my mom wants me to decide on what i want to do and wants me to go to a different community college..my mom and i might go next year but i dont think i can..my last trip to india was in 2003..i realize the more i call and write to keep in touch, the more they're going to keep asking until i actually know when i'm coming..as of now, if i decide to go to Santa Ana college, then for Christmas break, i have 8 weeks off..i'm thinking maybe going to a vocatioal college but i dont know..i cant take my family from india out of my mind..every day and night i hear ';when are you coming..ever since my cousin went back to india, he keeps asking and persuading me to visit india in december of this year but i dont think i will be going..please tell me ur advice..my cousin and i only got to spend 31/2 days in new yorkI am a college student living in america and my family in india keep asking when i'm coming,.advice needed
    Do what you want to do. Tell them honestly that you love and care for them but that this is your decision and you hope they will understand. After all you have to live with yourself forever so first make sure your true to you, while still remaining respectful to your familyI am a college student living in america and my family in india keep asking when i'm coming,.advice needed
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    I live in America, want to relocate to the UK, any advice?

    I have lived in the United States my entire life and I want to branch out. I am seriously considering moving to the UK, but I'm not entirely sure where yet. I heard that London is expensive, what city (or country) would you suggest? I am bored of America and it bothers me that this country is so young and lacks true culture and the people are so prude. And the government is just atrocious, doesn't care about it's people, and quite frankly is just embarrassing.I live in America, want to relocate to the UK, any advice?
    dontI live in America, want to relocate to the UK, any advice?
    its a way different country kiddo... American things like food are hard to find.. there ways are different from America..like any other place. the highways are covered by cameras so that speeders can get caught..most of the city's have cameras all over the place..which is good for getting criminals but bad your your individual rights..take a long hoilday ( thats what they call vacation in england) good luck
    Come on now, it cannot possibly be that bad.
    Good luck on your move. lt will be difficult at first if you drive a car as the driver is at the right (you own car?).
    I actually would recommend near the country; an average-sized town near the country is always good. If I were to recommend a specific place, I'd say the Southwest, particularly Devonshire. One of my favorite towns there is Torquay; look it up on a map sometime. With Devon and its surrounding neighbors, you get the added bonus of being near the wilds of Dartmoor (a large and still truly wilderness-based area) and being near the English Channel; a classic crossing point to the rest of the culture of Europe.


    Personally, I lived only in the city of Bath in the north and Teignmouth in the southwest, but I have traveled around the UK a lot. I would not recommend Bath, as it is much like London in being crowded and expensive.


    Oh, one more thing, to speak of expenses: houses are costly, much more than American houses could be. The cost of an average house there would be the equivalent to the cost of a small mansion here. Just warning you.
    My advice is, DO NOT DO IT. Sure, you can find plenty of faults with any place you live, but unless you REALLY like cold damp weather, super high prices, crime that has totally gotten out of hand, LOTS of very wierd people, and practically NO jobs to be found, you are much better off staying here.
    If you move to London, it will help if you learn the language. I am referring to Farsi as within 20 more years, London is on track to become a Muslim city by a majority.





    You could try the Philippines. You can live there quite inexpensively and they also speak English.





    Oh and don't let the door hit you on the way out.
    get outta here, who needs u. JK, hope it works out for u.
    i go to an American/international school in england- surrey. so near to london.


    my friends that have moved here from the states all have really diverse opinions of the UK. some cannot wait to go back and some love it they are all staying here for uni.


    -i think they enjoy having an american community around to help settle in, so research and see where that may be.


    - london is rather expensive so i wouldnt consider that. being close to it is amazing so look at the outskirts of london- that is not so expensive.


    - a lot of americans love the beach so maybe cornwall or brighton they are cool and a bit wacky.


    - have ppl back home to send you american food as it is so expensive here if you can find it but otherwise you will miss a lot of the candy and other such food items.


    hope this helps. can't think of anything else. good luck choosing!
    And you think things will be better in the UK?





    They won't. ALL of the UK is pretty expensive to live in, and fuel costs there make America look like a dream to drive in. The weather is horrible most of the time, and if you think that America has a government that doesn't care about its people, then you have no clue what a government descended from Royal rule is like. Socialized medicine isn't very good either, but they do try.





    Instead of running away, why not make an effort to improve where you are?
    Put quite simply...


    Don't.


    I could almost copy your last two sentences word for word about the UK.





    If you do decide to come here, a lot of things need to be considered, such as how much money you have, and your skills/ type of work.


    All the cities are pretty much the same now (over populated %26amp; expensive), though London has more history to it and is the most expensive.


    There are some nice places to live here, particularly on the south coast, and personally I'd like to live in Dorset, but like most things, it is more down to getting a decent income, rather than enjoying where you live.
    I suggest u take a vaction to the UK before relocating.... dip ur toes into the water b4 taking the plunge... every country has their goods and bads. Everything ultimately depends on u and how u handle things...!!!
    I think I'll just take my two points here. Just in case someone feels completely insulted, (and right they should), to your question, and obvious lack of national pride, and decides to report you or something silly like that. (not to worry though, it wouldn't be me that does it)


    If you decide on the UK, let me know how you make out.


    Take care, Jen
    Moving to another country will immediately solve those problems.
    If you were to move to the UK (I live here) then be warned:


    Most average sized houses over here is roughly 拢200,000.


    That is equivalent to roughly $400. It's very expensive here.


    And the weather isn't good at all. We're lucky if we see 3days of sun each week. 1 Day even sometimes.





    But i'm not sure where to recommend. Scotland is nice. Great views, fantastic country walks to go on, hills, green grass! ;) BUT, they speak in a slightly hard-to-understand accent. Plus, you probably won't as much of the latest news/songs etc.


    Around Manchester/Liverpool/St. Helens, it's quite good. I live in St. Helens. You always get the latest news, songs, items to buy etc, BUT, not really ANY Grassy scenery, and the crime can be quite high depending on which part of them you live in. And there can be drunk teenagers sometimes at night, so, it's quite scary tbh lol. So take your time to think about that.


    Devon is quite nice. From what i've heard its a mix between cities, towns and great walks too. But i'm not sure, you better check on that.





    Anyway! There y'ar. Some ideas on where to live IF you did move to UK. But, it would be a big decision. It can be quite rough over here, depending where you live. PLUS, you've lived in America all your life. Are you really sure you wanna consider moving here?





    Think about it; alot.





    OH AND EDIT: I'm not sure if you should. For a few reasons;


    1. You will need alot of money, so a good job here is needed.


    2. All your family and friends are in America.


    3. If you lose your job, and are stuck for a home to live in, you cannot ask your parents for a place to live in for a few days until you get another job.





    So, you would have to be well prepeared if you where to move here.
    Its sounds like you are describing the UK or any other country for that matter. It's not the country, it's the people. You just need somewhere with a low population so you can judge less people. If you have to go overseas....Amsterdam, Holland sounds like a fit for your persona.
    Yes, please hurry and leave...

    Holidaying in America with a little difference !!!! NEED HELP 'N' ADVICE PLZ! xx?

    I've done the sun, sand and sea holidays, this year I wanted to go America but stay with a family not an exchange thing I cant find the word for it, hotels are sooo boring and I would love to stay with a host family of some sort. I would like some advice on this issue and guidance as to where to find these 'host' families. I am 22 by the way and will be travelling with friends of similar age. I dont know if I gave enough information on here but please ask away and I will respond a.s.a.p !!





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    sounds like fun, but i dont know how to go about that sorry
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