Sunday, December 27, 2009

I am from different country, and i am studying in north america,tell me some advice on things to say?

tell me some things that would make north americans friend to think that i am gay, and how does the gays talk like and sound like (i am askin, cause i won't).





because i don't want them to think i am gay or anythin cause i am straight.





Tell me some stuff that north american friends would think that is weird, or thinks that i shouldn't say because they would think it's weird





and by the way, tell me how to start dating a north american girl, i don't know this american culture really well, like what do they like? and what do american girls talk about?I am from different country, and i am studying in north america,tell me some advice on things to say?
Americans require a lot more ';personal space'; than people from other countries. Males and females don't like to have someone stand so close that shoulders touch (unless they know you well) and leaning in (within a few inches) to speak to most Americans will make them uneasy.





If you go to a bar, make sure it's a straight bar (I know that seems obvious, but some people have made that mistake).





If you groom your fingernails and eyebrows, don't do it meticulously. American men (most of them) see that as a feminine act.





Try to accompany a female to at least every third social function (party or dinner). That's a great way to get accustomed to American courting (almost a lost art) and dismiss any lingering questions anyone might have about your sexual preference.





DO NOT have a lot of sex with a lot of girls just to try to show how straight you are. Sometimes people do this when they're not ready to come to terms with homosexuality. Besides that- if you want to find a girl worth marrying, you've got to learn how to treat one well and that's not the way.





American females like to be respected. Some of us are extremely independent while others prefer to be ';kept'; and looked after by their guy. You'll just have to learn the preferences of whatever girl you're interested and go from there. Identifying her preferred level of independence and honoring that is one of the greatest things you can do when starting any relationship- it's great for maintenance of existing ones as well.





I could go on and on but I'm ready for bed. Contact me if you'd like to talk more about this.I am from different country, and i am studying in north america,tell me some advice on things to say?
Well, if you've done/said something that your american friends think is gay, but it would be perfectly normal where you come from, you should tell them so they know that you don't mean anything by it. Guys probably take psysical contact the wrong way, even if it's just friendly. Hope that helps!

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