Wednesday, December 23, 2009

REALLY NEED ADVICE! I GO TO COLLEGE IN EUROPE AND GOT THIS GIRL PREGANT BUT I PLAN TO MOVED BACK TO AMERICA?

She's from the Uk.We are feel close to each other and she told me this morning that she is pregnant with my child





but after I finished graduate I'd planned to move back to Pennsylvania.I have a 1yr /half left





What should I do?REALLY NEED ADVICE! I GO TO COLLEGE IN EUROPE AND GOT THIS GIRL PREGANT BUT I PLAN TO MOVED BACK TO AMERICA?
not what should you do


but what you should have done.


wrap it up butt head!!!REALLY NEED ADVICE! I GO TO COLLEGE IN EUROPE AND GOT THIS GIRL PREGANT BUT I PLAN TO MOVED BACK TO AMERICA?
If you are the result of a college education, I'm scared for this country.
First make sure she is PG and start a new life if she is, finish college and take care of your responsibilities while you do that. People do it all the time, if you care for her you will figure it out I have to say that is one thing MEN are good for is taking charge and getting things together for their family...Well the REAL MEN are good for that. Good luck to you!!!!
marry her and bring her back to america too
pop the Q now hope she says yes! gud luck!
well, do you want to be apart of the childs life, it is really a no brainer ya know
Make her take a pregnancy test for proof of pregnancy. This will eliminate her trying to use pregnancy to make you stay in the UK. If she is pregnant, then tell her you will either send her money to assist with the baby (child support) or if you love her and want a family prepare for her to come back to the states. Honestly though, it may be best for her to get an abortion because the distance may cause stress on all three of you all. Decide whats best for both of you, and make a decision based on that.
OMG YOU SHOULD STOP YELLING YOUR QUESTIONS AT US!





Other than that, if you were planning on going back anyway, you should consider finishing your schooling in Pennsylvania. The Universities there aren't too shabby.
Be a man and take care of your kid. If you weren't ready to be a dad, you probably shouldn't have slept with her.
Oh la la, that is a real delicate situation.





To be honest I think you must first of all ask yourself if you are matured enough to become a dad? Do you love the girl so much so you would be willing to ask her to become your wife?





Is she protestant or a Catholic? Do you know that she is really carrying your child?





There are a lots of questions like the ones here above you must first of all find an answer too.





If you not love your girl so much so you are ready to marry her you should contact an attorney and listen what he/she has to say about child support.. Then when you know what the law says it is time for a long and serious chat with your girl. - If she wants to keep the baby you know in advance what the law tells you. If she agree to abortion... Well, then it is just to say congratulations.





However, if you do love her so much so you like to create a future with her the world is open. - You can make up plans freely.





Just promise to be a gentleman and not press your girl to do things she does not want to do.





Good Luck!
Well - stay in school you really need to brush up on your communications skills.
Congratulations daddy. Take care of her and the baby.

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